Thursday, December 13, 2012

Self confidence

I know it's hard to build your self confidence, or at least it seems hard in the begining. Here's how I know you'll belive me when I say you can have the girl of your dreams. Remember just the other day when you went to the park and saw a very beautiful girl holding hands with a short fat guy? Well I saw this kind of couples alot and I know you saw them too. Maybe the guy in your case was slim and short or tall and fat or very very ugly. In any case you would think they don't match. You thnk "Maybe he has alot of money". Why you think that? Because money give you ... self confidence. But you can gain that without so much money.

You wouldn't believe how attraction works. Well... easy. Girls look for confident men who belive in their own strength and seductive powers.

When you want to appear confident in your seductive powers you need to have that written all over you and also readable in your body language. It's more of a feeling then a tehnique. Fortunately there is a easy way to do it. And here it is: Every time you look in the mirror you find yourself NOT-(sexy, attractive, f***able, kissable, etc). Everyone feels in a different way. You need to take the "NOT" out and repeat the other word. Say again and again "I am sexy", "I am sexy" or "I am attractive", you know better.  

I was explaining in a previous post how to flirt with a girl in a bus. I'll use the same example. You'll go with the bus and repeat yourself that you are sexy or attractive and not only you will notice your behavior changeing but you will also feel the women looking at you differently. Why? You will start sending that message you repeat trough your body language, your smile and your amused fearless glances (that is how I can describe the attractive new you). You will notice that your body will change its language. You will start to behave like the person you want yourself to become. That will give your self confidence. You will be able to sit up more straight and also you will not avoid eye contact anymore. You will be attractive.

There it is. That is the secret. In less then a page. Don't waste your money on stupid guides that will teach you stupid techniques that will make you feel more unsecure and your body language look very fake. That scares most of the girls of. I dare you to try my experiment and please feel free to comment bellow about the result. 
And remember there is one dream girl for every self confident man. You may be bald, fat, short or ugly, but you may also gain self confidence and find the girl of your life.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

How to flirt with a girl on a bus

We all know that flirting is about showing mutual attraction through body language and verbal tactics. Alldough in theory, flirting seems easy as pie, we all know it's not.
I will teach you a simple flirting technique that you can practice alot, and get better at it every day. I realised we spend alot of time in bus stations and buses... Then I thought that flirting in a bus can be a fun way to enjoy the ride. It's always awfull to go to work in a crowded bus filled with people that you don't know. Is it that bad? If you're in a crowded bus, then you can have eye contact with at least 20 people. Most importantly is for you to find a good place to be able to see almost everyone in the bus. Those few seats that are placed in front of the bus and face all of the other seats are just perfect for your purpos. The attitude that you have to have is a liberating one, as if nothing could surprise you and nothing can upset you. Look around for two minutes and select interesting girls that you like. It remains only to determine which of them are willing to respond to eye contact. A two second glance for each of them should be enough. Repeat this glances jumping from one to another, and focus on your secure and calm atitude. You can even think about the fact that you are an attractive guy just enough for you to get your face expresion right. Among the girls you have chosen is impossible not to be a few who noticed your glances, and among them is imposible not to be at least one girl to respond with a similar glance. It is likely that the similar glance is because of the instinct of imitation. For this reason you'll look elsewhere, or simply give the impression that you looked at someone else. It is possible that this girl will start watching you using her peripheral vision. It is important to look in her direction, but not directly. This way she will feel your eyes and be puzzled when she looks and realize that no one was watching her. The subconscious of this girl will create some internal conflict about your person, basically because the second time that she looked your way and thought that you will be cought in the act, she actually wanted that. SHE WANTED YOU TO LOOK AT HER!!! If you are able to start her wondering why she wanted that, then she will start checking you out and try to catch your eyes. It will be almost like she was the one that started flirting. This will be your real advantage in the fallowing glances. This techinique must be rehearsed because is easy to screw up. You can easly upset girls by stearing at them, and you don't want that. You must be able to see the "no" or the "yes" in their eyes. This is my technique, it works for me and I can flirt in any bus if I want to. Hopefully it will work for you too. So...good luck!
P.S. Alldough this technique works just fine, this is not the way I met my wife that I love and respect very much! You know what I mean ;)